netTunes shows both of you the same UI -- the UI on the far side. It does not give separate playlists, since the idea is that the "server" is feeding audio to a music system that's attached to it... it doesn't "stream" at all.
If you and your girlfriend want to stream music to two different computers, you can simply use regular iTunes Playlist Sharing -- that should work fine.
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